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Helen Butler

Helen Marie "Dot" Butler (McHenry)

Saturday, March 20th, 1943 - Tuesday, December 24th, 2019
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Helen Marie “Dot” Butler, 76, of Locust Avenue Weston went home to be with her Lord on Tuesday, December 24, 2019 at her home surrounded by her loving family. She was born in Weston on March 20, 1943: daughter of Elmer Warren McHenry and step mother: Eileen and their children: Shirley and Paula and Stella (Lamb) McHenry Lawrence and step father Tom and family. On June 25, 1961, Dot married Leon Clark “Butch” Butler, who preceded her in death on April 1, 1990.

Mrs. Butler is survived by four loving children: Debbie Radcliff and companion: Chester Floyd, Carol Snyder and husband Lane, and Pam Lewis and husband: Stanley all of Weston and Brenda Ash and husband Bruce of Volga, WV, 8 grandchildren: Amie Smith, Bill Snyder(Giselle), Kelsey Snyder (Devon), Amy Arbogast, Kayla Bonnell (Jamie), Wesley Marsh (Lindsay), Nathan Crites (Catlyn) and Branson Crites, 14 great-grandchildren and Dot also raised one special nephew: David McHenry of Weston. She is also survived by one brother: Bill McHenry of Richmond, VA, one sister: Carol Bush of Port Deposit, MD and several nieces and nephews. Dot also had two furry companions: Monty, her dog and Stella, her cat. In addition to her parents and huband, Butch, Dot was preceded in death by one daughter and son-in-law: Linda Marie Marsh and husband Doug, one brother: Bud McHenry and four sisters: Evelyn McHenry, Mary Blake, Kate Hall and Ruth Talbott.

Mrs. Butler was a nursing assistant for Crestview Nursing Home, Stonewall Jackson Memorial Hospital and William A. Sharpe Hospital and also her final job was working as a healthcare assistant for Lewis County Senior Center. Dot enjoyed taking care of people. She was a graduate of Weston High School and a member of Broad Street United Methodist Church of Weston where she was in the choir.

Dot enjoyed reading and singing but her greatest joy was spending time with her family. She also fed and raised every kid that her children were friends with and will be missed by all whom she touched.

Family and friends will be received at the Hardman-Paletti Funeral Home 730 N. Main Avenue Weston on Saturday, December 28, 2019 from 3-7 p.m. Funeral services will be held on Sunday at 1:30 p.m. from the Hardman-Paletti Funeral Home chapel with Reverend Brian Plum officiating. Interment will follow services in the Rock Grove Cemetery of Linn, WV. On-line condolences and life stories in memory of Helen Marie “Dot” Butler may be expressed at hardman-palettifuneralhome.com.

Hardman-Paletti Funeral Home of Weston is honored and privileged to serve the family of Helen Marie “Dot” Butler.
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Service Details

  • Visitation

    Saturday, December 28th, 2019 | 3:00pm - 7:00pm
    Saturday, December 28th, 2019 3:00pm - 7:00pm
    Hardman-Paletti Funeral Home
    730 N. Main Ave
    Weston 26452
  • Service

    Sunday, December 29th, 2019 | 1:30pm
    Sunday, December 29th, 2019 1:30pm
    Hardman-Paletti Funeral Home chapel
    730 N. Main Ave.
    WESTON, WV 26452
    Get Directions: View Map | Text | Email
    Reverend Brian Plum
  • Interment

    Rock Grove Cemetery
    LINN, WV


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Debbie King-Foster

Posted at 05:35pm
My deepest sympathy to the entire family. Pam, Brenda, Carol and Wes please know I am thinking of you today. Such an honor to have known Miss Dot and work with her. A lady loved by many. She will be missed. God Bless. Debbie King-Foster

Ron and Rose Sholes

Posted at 06:04pm

Marcia Waugh

Posted at 05:27pm
Dot was a kind, loving lady. I will be forever grateful for the loving care she gave my brother when she sat with him. I will miss my Sunday morning hugs from her at church. RIP my friend you’ve earned your wings and your rest. Marcia Waugh

Jim Murphy

Posted at 04:50pm
My deepest sympathy to the family, especially Carol and Pam. I am sorry that I will be out of town, and not able to attend the service. May this good woman rest in peace.

Christina Stonestreet

Posted at 03:12pm
My heart goes out to Dot's family. I was honored to know n work with her.. she was a great woman.. fly high Dot

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